Spoiler alert: It’s everything.

If you’ve been on TikTok, you’ve probably heard women explaining what gives them the “ick” about certain guys. This, in general, just means red flags or things that you don’t like in a man — but, as TikTok creator @dudeicklist shows, there are many, many things that might give a potential suitor the “ick.”

For example, holding onto your partner’s leg in a weird way? Ick. Trying something new and being bad at it? Ick. Showing off your ankles in public? Major ick.

You heard it here first, fellas — if you don’t want to give potential partners the ick, just lock yourself in a box and refrain from speaking. You’ll be on your way to a successful and happy relationship in no time!